Put yourself out there but don't do it to find someone. Work, Parties, sport, meetups, dance lessons, yoga courses, there is really so much you can do. Do group activities, where you can get to know people. Now the important part: I would suggest to stop looking and instead to get out and present yourself. So my experience with girls was quite bad. This situation was unreal for me, because I was used to getting rejections all the time and I lost my virginity just one year before the relationship with 25. She wasn't that happy about it, but it didn't stopped us from getting together.
I told her pretty early, that I dated another woman. So for a briefly short amount of time I dated 2 girls at the same time and it helped me to get the confidence I needed for my first gf. I figured pretty fast, that she wasn't the kind of girl I wanted to be with. We dated for 2 weeks and had sex on the 3 date. Since it took us so long to get in bed with each other, I kinda lost hope, because I was used to getting friendzoned, but during her vacation time, I got to know another girl on a party. And all that in a situation, where I was jobless, mentally ill but not looking for someone.įunny enough though, that she went on vacation during our dating phase, before we had sex for the first time. Sadly it didn't lasted but I was lucky to have her as my first gf. We met, got on 4 different dates, before we had sex for the first time and after that we came together. I told her, then we could meet up and then I tell her. She messaged me and asked me what happened. I didn't thought of dating and more about finding a job. When I got fired I was in a very bad mental position. I got to know her via work and we understood each other quite well on our work but we just exchanged fb and instagram back then. Well I believed in this, too but I was always looking for someone. Mod harassment may result in a permanent ban.Ĭommunity Join us in Discord Online Resources If you have a question about moderation, please send a message to /r/dating_advice.ĭo not send mods pm's or chat requests.no articles or video links - Moderators do not have time to check external videos and links to make sure they follow sub and reddit rules and guidelines.If asking a question on a specific situation, please include the age and gender of both parties.You can state your opinion in a constructive manner. Any bashing, hateful attacks, or sexist remarks will be removed. Creating meaningful connections Community Guidelines Meeting people & starting conversations Established relationships longer than 6 months posts should go to r/relationship_advice Not discussions on the state of dating or generalized situations. Ask and offer advice for specific dating situations.
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